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Dating rules texting after first date

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There is no need to break into a cold sweat from trying to send the perfect flirty ~*~*Wi T n Ug Get~*~*~.Because he is texting you back "k" with one hand and using the other one to eat chicken wings. I have ruined otherwise amazing nights out with people who were actually IN FRONT OF ME by obsessing about the perfect bon mot. Don't overanalyze every little thing he says — he didn't think about it NEARLY as much as you did/are.

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Use of texting as the primary method of communication is growing in popularity in every age group under 45, so said a study I recently came across. Texting requires skills and patience that I just don't have.Too bad texting isn't a job skill we can put on her resume.What I don't get about texting is why people want to spend three minutes hunting, pecking and struggling to send a text when they could make a 30 second call and be done with it?I tried to answer just enough to be polite because I was still interested in meeting him, but by the time the evening arrived, he was acting like I was already his girlfriend.He seemed upset and surprised when I didn’t feel we had enough chemistry to go out again and I actually had to block his number because he wouldn’t stop texting me. You’re trying to figure out whether someone is the right one for you based on a handful of photos, descriptive paragraphs, likes and dislikes, and messages. At first it seems sweet that they care but eventually you realize they want a texting relationship rather than a real one. Any notion romance may have been replaced with Netflix and take-out but that doesn’t mean you have to jump into a relationship super fast just because the guy wants to talk to you all the time before your first date.Unfortunately, you think you’re bonding with this person and getting to know them… But if you’re texting someone before the first date, you will 100 percent run out of things to say on your in-person date.

And that’s a recipe for disaster, as anyone who’s been on an awkward first date knows all too well. I had a recent experience where a guy texted me day and night for several days before we actually met up for a drink.

And some of the worst texters are the best boyfriends. It's not being "high maintenance" or "needy" to want the guy to text you after the first date, if it went really well.

Just because he's not Jon Stewart over text doesn't mean he's not funny — and interesting, and sweet, and sexy, and reliable, and other non-sociopathic things — in person. A three-hour wait before he texts back — or, hell, a five-hour-wait — does not mean that he thinks you are a heinous sea crone with a salty vagina. Let's remember not to conflate "high maintenance" with "being a reasonable human who needs things." Those things are very different.

I swear, my kid can text without looking, at a speed of at least 250 words per minute. I don't know why her fingers haven't burst into flames!

It's like she and her friends have studied texting at the Bruce Lee Flying Kung Fu Fingers School or something.

Those little tiny buttons on the cell phones are ridiculously small and I get tired of mashing 2 or three letters at the same time.